One of the fruit of the spirit is patience. The Bible says be anxious for nothing. Maybe if we slowed down and really just listen to the voice behind the voice we will be fine. I see a lot of people on here looking for their husband or wife. The Bible says blessed is the man who findeth a wife, for he findeth a good thing and obtain favor from God. As people who love God, we have got to slow down. God has someone just for you, he wont let the man or woman of God down. Trust God, and slow down..He or she is coming, but remember we are not on the same time schedule as God. one day is a thousand years and a thousand years is a day to God. I hope i said something to help you.
God bless you